" To really love someone you need to constantly remind yourself that love is the most portent poison that kills you instantly unless you have the antidote.
Your passion obscures your judgment. Your admiration blinds your rational thinking. Occasional frustration overshadows your sanity.
To really love someone you need to reconcile your wildest dreams and the stark reality.
It's not about understanding and accepting their dark sides: it's about staying sober in your delirium, it's about striking a delicate balance between being madly hopeful and being bluntly realistic: the one most capable of letting you down is the object of your endearment because you're hoping too high.
To really love someone is not about squandering your entire life lavishing them with attention and sacrifice. It's about seeing who they really are and ensuring that you can remain comfortable with their quirky otherness." Pak Arif
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